1.
ADMONISH THE SINNER. Easier
said than done! To do this can be
extremely difficult, but it is exceedingly necessary now more than ever! Why is
it so difficult? For the simple reason that we are born proud and do not desire
to give up easily old and engrained habits, and if they are bad habits they are
called “vices”. We often cling to the
evil, the dirty, the ugly, the impure, the unhealthy, and the sinful!!! A common example merits our intention. Those who cohabit are living in sin and
somebody should tell them and give clear reasons why this is wrong? What might
be some reasons to explain why it is wrong? Here are some! Premarital sex or fornication is a mortal
sin. You deprive yourself of the Sacraments, both of Confession and the Holy
Eucharist. If children are born then it is a scandal, meaning that you are
giving them bad example. You are giving public scandal, even if many are doing
it now. Majority does not make right in the eyes of God. You erode your
conscience. Finally, you are crucifying the Lord Jesus by living in mortal sin
and if dying in this state you could lose your immortal soul for all eternity!
God so highly prizes admonishing the sinner and bringing him back on the right
path that He promises salvation and the expiation of many of our personal sins
by simply bringing back one straying sinner.
Read the words of the Apostle Saint James: “My brothers, if anyone among you should stray from the truth and someone
bring him back, he should know that whoever brings back a sinner from the error
of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.”(Saint
James 5: 19-20)
2.
INSTRUCT THE IGNORANT. We all have heard the proverb: “Charity
begins at home.” This is true especially
in the formation of children and adolescents. By choosing the married state,
husband and wife profess to be open to life through procreation. That is just
the very first step! Next it is incumbent upon parents to teach their children
all that refers to God, the Commandments, the Sacraments, prayer, Marian
devotion, and much more… The primary responsibility of parents bringing
children into this world is to bring these children into heaven. The school is not the first teacher, nor the
catechism teacher, nor even the Pastor or priest. No! The first teachers must
be Mom and Dad. This necessarily implies
the process of ongoing or permanent formation on the part of the parents.
Another proverb is worthy of injecting here: “You cannot give what you do not
have.” One field that parents must
master, in the realm of education for themselves as well as their children, is
that of sexual morality. Parents must strive to know the Biblical and Church’s teaching
on purity, live it out in their own lives and then teach it with the utmost
clarity to their children!
3.
COUNSEL THE DOUBTFUL. Much can be said on this Spiritual work of
mercy, but we will briefly mention one: the importance of solid spiritual
direction! Both Saint Teresa of Avila as
well as Saint Faustina Kowalska and to mention a third Saint Margaret Mary Alocoque
all were strongly dependent on spiritual direction so as to discern God’s will
in their lives! They all are canonized
saints and one of the reasons was that they humbly admitted that they were
ignorant in many ways, had many doubts and had to submit their judgments,
inspirations and thoughts to a higher authority—their Confessors and Spiritual
Directors. Given there is a shortage of
priests as well as spiritual directors, still it is incumbent upon us to find
some way to have periodic spiritual direction so as to expel the many doubts
that can easily cloud our mind and blur our judgment and corrupt our actions. Saint
John of the Cross put it wryly: “He who has himself as spiritual director has
an idiot as his spiritual directee!” In other words we all have blind spots
that can only be enlightened by proper spiritual direction.
4.
COMFORT THE SORROWFUL. This is extremely important! Saint Ignatius of Loyola, in his rules for
discernment, outlines the strategy on how to act when we are in a state of
desolation. In desolation we feel sad,
depressed, nobody really cares for us, life seems useless and without
meaning. We all go through this state at
times; it is part of being human. However, when you are aware of somebody going
through this state, do all you can to be a source of encouragement. How? First,
pray for the person. Second, a warm smile can go a long way! Third, say a word
or two of encouragement. Fourth, offer a compliment on some good quality the
person has. Fifth, maybe even recount a humorous story or anecdote to pull this
person out of the pits. This is very pleasing to God. We become like Simon of
Cyrene who helped Jesus to carry His cross!
5.
BEAR WRONGS PATIENTLY! Once again, easier said than done! In this we need grace and a lot of grace!
Maybe at work we have been wronged by a boss or by a co-worker. Changing jobs is unthinkable due to the
economic situation. Both the boss and co-worker are not going anywhere! The
most pleasing attitude in the eyes of God is simply to return to work with
great humility and trust in Divine Providence. Trust God! He will be there with you to help you to
patiently carry the cross. Of immense help could be to meditate upon Jesus
carrying His cross heading towards His crucifixion. Even though Jesus fell
three times, He still got up with the weight of the sins of the world on His
weary and blood-beaten shoulders! We should always have Jesus before our eyes
as our model and example, Indeed Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
6.
FORGIVE ALL INJURIES. May God help
us! We have arrived at the heart of mercy in our dealing with others. Mercy is
a two-way street! If we want to receive
mercy from God, then we must be merciful and forgive those who have done us
wrong. Biblical verses on this topic are many, very many…
· “Be merciful as your Heavenly Father is merciful…
· “Vengeance is mine: I will repay, says the Lord.”
· “Do not let the sun go down on your anger.”
· “Forgive us out trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us…”(The Our
Father)
· “I tell you not 7 times, but 70 times 7 times… you must forgive…”
· “Leave your gift and first be reconciled with your brother…”
· “Father forgive them for they know not what they are doing.”
· “Amen I say to you: today you will be with me in Paradise.”
One hint in the area of forgiveness. Accept the fact that all of your life people
will hurt you. The most common place that we are wounded is in the context of our
family, with family members. The key is this: forgive immediately! As soon as
anybody hurts or wounds you, then pray for that person and forgive immediately.
If done you have won a major victory over self and shown God how much you love
Him by practicing mercy.
7.
PRAY FOR THE LIVING AND THE
DEAD. Jesus told Saint Faustina that He
desires that we practice at least one act of mercy every day. He specified that
mercy can be carried out in one of three manners: 1) by kind words, 2) by kind
deeds, 3) by prayer! One of the greatest acts of charity we can do in our lives
is to simply pray for others both the living and the dead. With respect to the
living, there should be a hierarchy of importance. If married and with a family
this should be the order: first spouse, children, parents, brothers and
sisters, relatives, friends, co-workers and associates, and we should also pray
for those we do not like and even for our enemies! Then with respect to the
dead, we should pray constantly for the dead. Saint Francis de Sales emphasizes
the fact that this is one of the greatest acts of charity that we can do. Why
this? For this simple reason: they are
totally dependent on the mercy of God and on our prayers, almsgiving or
charity, as well as our sacrifices. The Gregorian Mass of a month’s consecutive
Masses came about because Pope Saint Gregory the Great had to pray thirty
consecutive Masses so as to free his deceased friend from the fires of
Purgatory. A common error today is in funeral Masses where the deceased person,
despite his many moral failures, is being unofficially canonized in the funeral
homily as well as in the eulogy. True, we should be compassionate towards those
who lose their loved ones. Still, we should not canonize and jump the gun
before time. Only the Pope has the right to canonize anyone! The Bible teaches
clearly and unequivocally that only the pure and without blemish can enter the
Kingdom of God.
CONCLUSION. Ask yourself in humble pray which of these
Spiritual works of mercy you believe the Holy Spirit is inspiring you to
undertake right now. Look at your concrete living condition and surely the Holy
Spirit will pinpoint persons and areas where you will be able to implement with
great generosity of soul one or more of these spiritual works of mercy. Never
forget the inspiring and challenging words of Jesus: “Whatsoever you do the least
of my brothers that you do unto me.” (Mt. 25:31-46)