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God allows evil because He respects
our free will, but God can always bring a greater good out of the evil that we
do. St. Augustine experienced this in his
life. Half of his life was given over to pride and sensual pleasure. The second
half of his life—after his conversion to the love of Christ—was given over to
abundant fruits of holiness. After his conversion
Augustine coined the immortal phrase: “Oh
happy fault of Adam and Eve that resulted in the coming of Jesus Christ, the
Savior.” The sin of Adam and Eve was
nothing less than a catastrophe, but the coming of Christ, His life, death and Resurrection
(The Paschal Mystery) far superseded the evil of the Original Sin.
Similarly the greatest sinners can become
the greatest saints if they simply have a limitless trust in the mercy of
Christ. This is the beautiful teaching of Jesus in the modern spiritual classic
of St Faustina “The Diary of Divine
Mercy in my Soul.”
Consequently, those who have fallen
into the mire and filth of the Pornographic cesspool can reap fruits of
salvation and redemption. Man, by his very nature is the epitome of fragility
and weakness; we are made of clay as the prophet asserts. However, one of God’s
attributes is that of His OMNIPOTENCE--- this means very simply that God indeed
is “All-powerful.” There is nothing that
goes beyond the Almighty, all-encompassing and all-embracing power of God. Jesus said that for man it is impossible, but for God all
things are possible. God indeed can move
the mountains—of our greatest sins. The
Psalmist expresses the same concept:
“Our help is in the name of the Lord who made heaven and earth…” As well as, “The Lord is my Shepherd there is
nothing I shall want… (Psalm 23). St Paul reiterates this, “If the Lord is with
us who can be against us and, Paul also stated, “That when I am weak it is then
that I am strong.”
All this being said, we must look up
confidently to Jesus who is the Way, the Truth and the Life, but also He is our
Savior, Redeemer, our Rock, but most especially Jesus is our Doctor, Healer,
the “Divine Physician” of body and soul!
SPIRITUAL STRATEGY TO CONQUER THE
WOLF OF PORN
1.
HUMBLE ADMISSION. Unfortunately many macho men blurt out to justify
and to rationalize porn and other acts of immorality saying: “Well men will be men; boys will be
boys.” This means that given that they
are male then porn and sexual immorality is permissible. Wrong! Two commandments command purity: the sixth and the ninth. “Thou shall not commit adultery” and “thou
shalt not covet your neighbor’s wife.”
This applies to men and women.
Also, one of the Beatitudes is: “Blessed are the pure of heart for they will
see God.” (Mt 5:8) A pre-condition for
holiness, sanctification and salvation is purity for all men, women, boys,
girls, young or old, married or unmarried. No exceptions!
2.
CONFESSION! Sin is moral sickness. It is indeed
infirmity. Sick people must admit their sickness and have recourse to doctors. Spiritually sick people--- sinners, and we all
fall into this category—must have recourse to the Spiritual doctor and that is
Jesus the Healer present in the person of the priest in the place called the
confessional. There is a Spanish
proverb: “No worse blind person than he
who does not want to see; no worse deaf person than he who does not want to
hear.” This simply means that denial of
sin, rationalizing guilt will get us nowhere except profound depression,
anxiety and vicious habits! We must admit
our problem with porn and bring it to Jesus the doctor in the confessional.
Jesus heals, saves, supports, encourages and strengthens us for the battle of
life to gain heaven!
3.
HUMILITY, PATIENCE AND TRUST IN HIS
MERCY. Sacramental theology teaches a
principle called, “The Principle of graduality”. This means that we cannot always overcome a
bad habit or vice immediately, but it takes time, human effort, but especially
the grace of God. One might have recourse to confession and fall. However, one
fall in a week is better than two falls every day! In pursuit of holiness God
allows weaknesses and falls so that we grow in humility, self-knowledge and
awareness and training for the spiritual battle.
4.
PRAYER! Prayer is called the weakness of God and the
strength of man. Of course God is never weak, but He gives in to our constant
begging. Bartimeus the blind beggar recovered his sight precisely for this
reason: he kept begging and insisting--- almost to the point of being a
nuisance—that Jesus might grant him what he desired, his sight. Addictions, especially to porn, must be
overcome by humble, constant, persistent, and confident prayer to the Lord of
the Universe. Remember what Jesus said: “Ask and you will receive; seek and you
will find; knock and the door will be open.” (Mt 7:7)
5.
PENANCE. On one occasion the Apostles asked Jesus why
they could not cast out the devils and Jesus said that only through prayer and
fasting would they be able to do it!
Behind porn the devil is indeed present--- seducing, lying, alluring and
deceiving; all of these are maneuvers of the devil, who Jesus said is a liar
and a murderer form the beginning. (Jn. 8). Therefore, establishing a
discipline of penance, mortification, or fasting can be another key weapon in
the conquering the enemy of porn.
6.
SELF-KNOWLEDGE AND STATE OF
DESOLATION. The genius of St. Ignatius
of Loyola is bequeathing to the Church the Spiritual Exercises, the Jesuits,
thousands of letters of rich spiritual insight.
Still more, Ignatius bequeathed to the Church and the world at large
Rules for discerning the spirits. The
bad spirit and his suggestions must be rejected manfully and quickly; the good
spirit with his inspirations should be received. In the context of the rules issues forth a
key concept: DESOLATION! Desolation
defined is when the soul feels sad, depressed, lack of peace, inclination to
low things—sensuality—lack of faith, hope and charity. And it is precisely in
this state of soul that the devil strives to attack us with temptations and he
knows our weakness; it is precisely in these moments of temptation that many
are prone to have recourse to the lie of porn, to give in to creature-comfort
and illicit pleasure that we call pornography.
All are prone to the state of desolation and it is in that moment that
we must make the decision to turn to God and seek His defense and strength
rather than to capitulate to the devil of porn. Spiritual life indeed is a constant
battle, but God is stronger than our weakness.
7.
LOVE FOR JESUS AND MARY. Indeed porn is a false-god, an idol, the
Bronze calf of the day. A key element in
conquering this sin is to get to know, love and grow in Friendship with
Jesus. In this Year of faith, the Holy
Father Pope Benedict XVI challenges all to discovering a real and personal
encounter with Jesus. St Peter walked on
the water when he had his eyes fixed on the eyes of Jesus, but when he lifted
his gaze he sunk in the cold waters. We
too must not focus on anyone nor anything in our lives except Jesus, His will,
and His Friendship. If not we will sink into the muddy and almost inextricable
muds of porn. Jesus must be my Way, Truth, Life and constant Friend and
Companion on the Highway to heaven!
We have outlined a “Spiritual
strategy” to conquer the enemy of Pornography. In the following article, we
will present practical steps for a proper use of the Computer and the
Internet--- both the spiritual and the practical steps must be applied.
